Day 15 Magic Practice (Magically Heal Your Relatiionships)

By now we should know that whatever feelings we have, these feelings multiply, they are vibrations you send to the universe, and the universe will try to match it by sending you more of it.

So if you are feeling bad about a relationship, guess what? The bad feelings will multiply because what you send out, returns to you.

So what if someone hurt you so bad, and you can’t let go of that feeling? Can’t forgive? Can’t bless that person? Don’t worry if you fall in this category you are very normal, it takes courage above the normal, to be able to transcend the hurt and pain someone as caused you. They may have done a terrible injustice, and it has impacted you really badly.

But according to the author of ‘The Magic’, there is gold in every relationship. In order to see this you have to let go of who was right, and who was wrong. You can acknowledge that it is the past, and can no longer have power over you in a negative way, but can benefit you.

Whether it is you father, mother, ex partner, a sibling, an unpleasant encounter with a stranger, it does not matter. What matters is seeing how this negative experience as made you a stronger person.

For example, if you have an ex boyfriend/ex husband who is burning up your life write down this person’s name and thank him…

Y..(the person’s name) Thank you for the experience i had with you, it taught me what to avoid in my next relationship so that I can make better choices in choosing a partner in future.

An uninvolved mother…

Mom, thank you for the experience I had with you, I now see the importance of what a mom means, and I know that everything that I have longed for as a child from you, and never got, I will give to my own children. I will shower them with all the love and affection in my heart.

A teacher who said something horrible and affected you in a bad way;

Mr Y (name) Thank you for what you said to me, it made me realise that there are really weak people in this world, and it takes a weak person to say something this horrible, as a teacher myself, I now guard my words and makes sure that every word that comes out of my mouth nurtures that child’s self-esteem, and therefore I am loved as a teacher.

Pick one person with whom you have a negative relationship, and thank them for the experience you had with them, using the  format above.

As you see how the person has helped you to be a better person, you slowly begin to let go of that negative feeling, and will instead bear positive thoughts which will help you more on your path to abundance.

Day 14 Magic Practice (Have a Magical Day)

Every so often we wake up and get out of bed in a bad mood, and thus event after event throughout the day goes wrong, and by the end of the day you might feel terribly miserable and very well defeated. Some of us do not make the connection to how we start the day and the outcome of the day. But these two are very closely related. Wake up with negative thoughts and things will spiral out of control. Wake up with positive thoughts, and your day will proceed much better, sure there will be obstacles, but these you can handle.

Therefore today’s magical practice is all about starting a magical day by mentally scanning all your activities throughout your day even before you started your day, and says thank you, thank you, thank you that each activity resulted in a positive outcome. For example, if you don’t like your job say, ‘thank you, thank you, thank you that I had a great day at work’. Say it as if it already happened, and feel it as if it were real. Do this with each and every single thing that you are expecting to be accomplished today, and see and feel it having been accomplished successfully before you even start.

Whether the task is simple or challenging, show gratitude, that you had gone through your day in a successful manner.

Just try this, and compare it to any other day where you allow your mood, and subconscious thoughts to take over, and you will see a difference in you thoughts, feelings, and therefore outcomes.

As the law of attraction states, ‘whoever is grateful for ……… will be given more, and whoever is ungrateful for……….will be given less.’

So give gratitude in all that you do, and watch your abundance and happiness expand.

Day 13 Magic Practice (Make All Your Wishes Come True)

Today’s magic practice is to me a thrilling activity, it brings much wonderment into one’s  life and keeps one walking on air for hours afterwards. Keep doing this practice and it will keep going for days, until you feel it
real, or indeed manifests. That’s when you know that your thoughts and reality is at the frequency you want it
to be.

Make a list of your top 10 desire, using a pen and paper, or sitting at the computer.Now rewrite at as if it really happened, and you are grateful for your desires manifesting into reality.

For example if you would like to get your dream job, write thank you, thank you, thank you for giving me my dream job
(at so and so)…

Do this with ten other desires, whether it is that you found your life partner, bought the car of your dreams, healed from an illness, write it as if it really happened, and feel the gratitude.

Now for each one imagine:

How did you feel when you heard the good news? Who was the first person you told? What did you do upon achieving your desired goal? Make it as real as possible.

The law of attraction doesn’t know the difference between reality and imagination, whatever you think and feel about yourself, the world around you, is what the universe believes is real, and what the universe believes is real, it brings in more of those thoughts and feelings into your life.

So only when you can truly experience your desires as real, will the universe reward you with it.

Day 12 Magic Practice (People Who Made a Difference)

All of us have come across some person or other who has made a huge positive impact in our lives. We might not have realised the value of this person back then, but over the years, and looking back, we see that it was a certain person who inspired us to be where we are today.

It might be a teacher, an uncle or aunt, a neighbour, a counselor, nanny, it could be anyone who instilled within you a seed of faith about your ability to do something and it spurred you on to explore and excel in this endeavor.

Your task is to be grateful for this person. Probably, you have lost contact with the person concerned, or you would feel awkward approaching him/her at this point, or whatever the situation may be.

But you can still have an imaginary talk with this person. In fact, choose three people whom you are truly grateful for, and tell them why you are grateful to them, and how their involvement in your life has made a huge positive difference in where you are today.

For me, this person is my best friend, so mine will like something like this:

Thank you, Y, for being a true friend to me. So many people had given up and turned their backs on me, but always, you remained faithful and steadfast at my side. Just by doing so, I learned to love myself, because I knew that at least one person out there cared for me. You cared and believed in me so much that I started learning to love and like people, enough to want to improve their lives too and inspire them, to never give up, and that every day is a second chance. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Do the same with two other people who made a huge impact on your life. According to the author of ‘The Magic’ it is best to ‘speak’ to all three chosen persons in a row, because that will amplify the feeling of gratitude.

And as the LOA states, the more you feel gratitude, the more it multiplies.

Day 11 Magic Practice (Magical Morning)

What better way to start your day than with a spirit of gratitude?

In today’s practice (best done tomorrow morning when you awaken) you will start your day even before you get out of bed, with gratitude. Start by being grateful for a great night’s sleep. Then be grateful for your warm bed and blankets. Is it winter and you have central heating? Be grateful, many people out there do not have this privilege.

When you get into the shower be grateful for hot water, some people don’t have a bath/shower with hot water. If you  have cold water, just be grateful that you have water.

Do the same with you breakfast. If you getting dressed for work, be grateful for your work attire, and that you have work to go to. If you are looking for work be grateful for the time you now have to re-assess your life, your career, set goals.

Continue with this throughout the day with everything you have, all the opportunities presented to you as you go through the day.

You will notice an  amazing shift in your mindset, and also the outcome of the day.

As the Law of Attraction states, the more grateful you are, the more will receive that which you are grateful for in abundance.

Have a magical morning!

Day 9 The Magic Practice (The Money Magnet)

One of the greatest mistakes some of us seem to make when it comes to money issues, is our tendency to complain about  the bills we pay. Sure, no one likes to pay bills, but this act in itself is extremely anti-abundance. It defies the Law of Attraction, because whatever feelings we have at any given moment, these feelings multiply. So if you are feeling negative about giving out money, you will continue to create situations where you continue to feel that negativity about paying bills, and you will have more bills to pay. And so the cycle continues.

So how do we feel happy about paying our bills? The author of ‘The Magic’ suggests that we feel grateful for the goods and services that we received as a result of that bill. Because we were able to pay the bill we could enjoy hot water and electricity, if it was a grocery bill, feel the gratitude for the delicious meals you were able to eat because you could pay that grocery bill.

And to increase this sense of gratitude, take all your previously paid bills, and write on the bill, ‘thank you-paid’. Find at least 10 bills you have paid in the past and write ‘thank you-paid’ on it. If you have unpaid bills and haven’t paid, or haven’t yet the money write, ‘thank you for the money’, and then when you do receive the money write thank you-paid.

You will feel an enormous sense of gratitude, and not only this, you will remember that you have received a great service or product simply because you were blessed to have the money to pay your bills.

Another practice related to paying bills involved imagining that you are receiving exactly the same amount of money as the bill that lies before you. Instead of fretting on a negative feeling, feel as if have just been given that amount, feel the joy of receiving.

As the Law of Attraction brings you exactly how you think or feel, you are sure to attract more of the good stuff into your life.

Day 8 Magic Practice (The Magic Ingredient)

In today’s magic practice we will remember to say ‘thank you’ for every single food or drink that we will take in.

Look at your breakfast table, and be thankful for each and every item on your plate. If you are eating eggs, think of the chicken that produced the egg, and be grateful for it. If you are having fruit for example, think of the fruit pickers who sweat long hours often  in the harsh sunshine picking fruits, so that we can have the ease of just picking them up at the supermarket. Think of the fisherman who went out to sea to get the fish that now lies so easily on your plate before you. Be grateful for every grain of sugar, for every pinch of salt, because even these were brought to you through the toil of someone else, to make your lives easier.

The writer of ‘The Magic’ also shares how she often waves her hands over her food and drink as if sprinkling ‘magic dust’ of gratitude before eating and and drinking.

Be thankful for your food,  where it came from, and the people involved in making it so much more accessible to you.

So remember your blessings to have every single food item and drink at your disposal, and magic dust your food if you can.

 

 

Whoever is grateful, will be given more.

 

Day 5 (Magical Practice- Magical Money)

Been practicing the magic for 5 days, and so far, so good. I feel so energized and enriched. Keeping this magical journey, draws me into continuous awareness to alter my thoughts whenever my subconscious unwittingly decides to tempt me with complaints. I just shove that sorry thought out of my mind and replace it with something positive.

Today’s magical practice is once again involves an affirmationand consists of two parts.

Think back to your childhood and list all the things that you had, all the privileges and opportunities that came to you at no cost at all. For example, did you get a car ride to school? Were you fortunate to get good dental treatment? Did you always come home to a deliciously cooked meal? Did your school have extramural activities that you were able to participate in? Did you learn to play a musical instrument? Did you have opportunities to develop your talent? All these things were blessings that you were showered upon you, things that other kids might not have had, things that made your life and childhood easy, and even a joy. Now is the time to express gratitude for all those blessings. Those things were at a cost, someone had to pay, and it was not you, yet the money for it, the opportunities, for you were always there, free of charge.

Part 1

List all the things that you received in your childhood that you were grateful for:

1. Thank you, that I had the opportunity to attend and complete all my school years.

2. Thank you for the home-cooked meal that was always waiting for me after a long day at school.

3. Thank you for the car ride that I had to school every  morning through all my twelve years of schooling.

4. Thank you for all the essential items I had at my fingertips, toothpaste, shampoo, soap, etc.

5. Thank you for the TV that we had that kept me entertained throughout my childhod years.

6. Thank you for the clean room, with pretty curtains, beddings, and carpets, and for the furnishing in  my room that made it a pleasure to be in my own personal space to play, read, do my homework, and sleep with comfort.

7. Thank you for the large spacious backyard, and front garden where I could play safely during the long summer months.

8. Thank you for the kitchen that was always stocked with sweet goodies, cakes, biscuits, chips, chocolates, and all the things kids love, as well as the healthy things such as fruits that were also readily available.

9. Thank you for the endless supply of water and electricity that came with the turn of a tap, and the flip of a switch.

10. Thank you for the clothes I was given, and that I always had something warm to wear  on those bitter cold winter days.

Part 2

Thank You For All The Money I Have Ever Received Throughout My Life

Write this affirmation on a dollar bill (or stick it on the dollar bill) and place it where you can see it throughout the day. Whenever you see it during the

day affirm that you are grateful for all the money that you have ever received. Do this as many times as possible

Day 4 (Magic Practice- (Magical Health)

Today’s magical practice is to repeat a magical health affirmation. You can repeat it as many times as possible during the day while feeling amazing health, and a deep sense of gratitude for it. Write it down on a piece of paper and place it somewhere where you will see it and be reminded to affirm your health, for example, attach it to your PC, or if you watch TV place it on the TV, or in the kitchen if you are cooking. Important thing is to be conscious of the affirmation at all times, and to feel grateful for you health.

Here is the affirmation:

The Gift of Health is Keeping Me Alive

In the spirit of gratitude for health my daily gratitude of list will be based on it:

1. I am grateful for my good health because it is allows me to fulfill all the tasks I need to complete with total independence.

2. I am grateful for my healthy pregnancy because I know that my baby is safe and developing as she should.

3. I am grateful for my eyes because it allows me to see the beauty all around me.

4. I am grateful for my healthy lungs because I can breath easily.

5. I am grateful for my feet which takes me places where I would like to go easily.

6. I am grateful for my sound mind because I can use logic and solve problems.

7. I am grateful for my heart which ensures that all my organs are functioning at it’s optimum thus serving me in the best way possible.

8. I am grateful for my hands which allows me to do many things and serve humanity through typing positive messages for all.

9. I am grateful for my ears that allows me to appreciate beautiful music and the wonderful sound of nature.

10. I am grateful for my sense of smell, because lovely smells uplift my spirit and makes me feel great.

Day 2 ( Magic Practice-The Magic Rock)

My magic practice for today is to find a rock. Any rock. It doesn’t have to be expensive, or special or anything (but you can if you want), you can even get one from your garden. The whole idea is not that this rock is magical, because in fact it isn’t.

What you will do with this rock is to hold it in your hand every night before you fall asleep and say aloud the best thing that happened that day. In this way you will surely end your day with a feeling of success, that you had a meaningful day. You could call your rock the ‘gratitude rock’. As you can see, there is nothing magical about the rock. it is merely a reminder to be grateful, and according to the Law of Attraction, gratitude works like magic.

Next is my list of 10 things I am grateful for:

1. I am grateful for all the free audio books on Youtube, such as ‘The Science of Being Great’ because it is free and has also helped me on my personal transformation journey.

2. I am grateful that the kitchen AC has been fixed- finally- after a month of waiting for proper assistance because it is now a lot better seeing that I am living in this desert heat.

3. I am truly thankful for having health insurance (I didn’t for many years) because it really does make a huge difference in my quality of life.

4. I am blessed to have all this free time to do as I please (in a constructive manner) because I have worked very hard and deserve this amazing break.

5. I am grateful for the lovely, huge box of chocs my husband received from his client because they unwittingly chose all my favourite chocolates, and it’s enough to last six months.

6. I am grateful that my husband understands me (and the dysfunctional family I come from!) because he is able to console me, and help me to improve myself and overcome my past.

7. I am grateful for all the places I have worked, because each place has contributed to the person that I am today.

8. I am grateful for being married and to be a mom soon because exactly two years ago I at this time would have that it was impossible to find someone who could ever love me, and now I know the power of prayer (combined with the law of attraction).

9. I am grateful for having a great sense of intuition because I truly feel guided every step of the way.

10. I am grateful for ice cream in the fridge because I will have some now! 🙂

As you can see, it is not very hard to be grateful, and as I am sitting here I am already feeling positive and inspired to make the most of the day ahead.